ON BANNING THE WHITE GAZE

ON BANNING THE WHITE GAZE

My banning the white gaze can feel like oppression to so many of you. How do I know this?

In all this time of my white gaze ban, I have yet to see one post where someone says that they didn’t realize how oppressive their words were

until someone had to ban them from commenting or tagging. And please don’t post your lament now that I’ve mentioned it. Just think about it. Just think.

I have however gotten simple compliance to my wishes which is a step up from the usual ‘THIS IS REVERSE RACISM!’ and ‘I was an ally so CYA!’

If we’re going to change the world (and we will), you’re gonna have to dig deep into your souls with a spiritual fervor that you either currently do not have or are unwilling to muster.

Just thought you oughta know and I hope you have it in you.

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