THE GASLIGHTING DISPARITY

With all these postings about white folk storming the Capitol, there’s been zero gaslighting with:

‘Hate only breeds hate’

‘Calling out the evil fosters evil’

‘It’s all negativity’

‘I choose to focus on the good things!’

‘Civilian affair’

‘Calling out the crime is criminal too’

‘Let’s wait for the WHOLE story’

And let’s admit that it feels good for a change to walk around in common solidarity for once and say CAN YOU BELIEVE THIS NONSENSE?!?

But that won’t stop the hashtags, though.

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